So let’s talk about that.
Hmmm well everyone always asks, how do you know? How do you know you’re in love?
Are you in love with someone or just merely love them? What’s the difference?
Love like your best friend kind of love or I can’t live without you love?
All I know is that love takes time and energy. It doesn’t happen when you want it to happen. You CAN’T force it. It is just something that has to happen on its own.
The other problem with relationships is, does someone love someone more?
OR is someone in love and the other one isn’t? This could cause serious issues. I honestly believe that you have to be on the same level with the person you are in a committed relationship with. Whether you are both obsessed with one another or you both have the same understanding that it isn’t going to get that serious. It has to be on equal levels.
You have to be evenly in love, out of love or not interested in falling in love -whatever it may be….it has to be equal.
That is just my experience though. I can’t imagine trying to be in a relationship when people are on two opposite pages. Expressing the way that you feel about one other would help get rid of of this (like mature adults). But the issue lies where people are scared. Example: “I’m in love with him but I know he’s not in love with me…so I’m going to pretend that I don’t love him.”
My ex boyfriend told me he loved me about three weeks after us knowing one another. I’m not saying he didn’t love me and I’m not saying that I don’t believe in love at first sight, cause I do. BUT I didn’t feel it at the same time he said it. So, I didn’t say it back. Sooner or later I realized I was in love with him and I told him. I think that he did the right thing. If your in love with someone tell them. It might be scary but don’t you think that person deserves to know? What if something happens to them? Or what if they feel the EXACT same way that you do? Or maybe you could resolve some issues. I guess its easier to say then do..because you could be nervous about them not loving you back..
All I know is that if I love you, you will know. Trust me. That’s my belief, what do you think?