I’m going to start off by saying I hate that show. Me and Cait ( or was it Karoline?) got in a heated argument about watching a Big Bang Theory marathon or Briddddddeeeezilllllasssss marathon over the summer. I think Bridezillas won! 🙂
As you may know already I had school today. Everyday something happens to me at school that makes me question my life.
Every. damn. day.
Today particularly had to deal with having a boyfriend/fiance. I was talking with the group of girls that I usually chat with during my hour break between classes (all six of them) and the one was looking at wedding dresses. I told her Congrats and that I didn’t know. She showed me her ring it was absolutely gorgeous. Jeez. So then the other blonde girl says
“Yea, I can’t wait to get married after the nursing program..”
Me shocked…”How old are you?”
Damn..“That’s great, how long have you guys been dating?”
“About two/three years”
I’m not judging let that be clear. You can get married at whatever age you want to. I would probably get married sooner rather than later as well. Especially if I find the right person.
So then the brunette next to me says that her boyfriend wants to get married to her as well! She said she is nervous though because she has a child from a previous relationship and she wants to make it work.
THEN the 20-yr old (the youngest of the group) talks about how cute her boyfriend surprised her for their anniversary..
Me? Oh I’m sitting there smiling..thinking about all the boyfriends I DON’T have hahah 😉
She goes on to say about how they have been planning to get married after she graduates nursing school.
Well holy shit on a cracker.
Everyone is getting married and happy as a freakin bird with a french fry. Hahaha I’m not mad. And I’m not saying I need a boyfriend to be content. I mean, it’s nice but I just really enjoyed seeing these girls happy. If this is what makes them smile, and they are truly happy, then go for it.
Made me think a lot about my family, and I won’t get real sentimental or personal. But I think it will really have to take a truly amazing person to make me want to spend everyday for the rest of my life with. Someone that I won’t ever get sick of. Someone I can have an argument with, then we can make up. Not a “perfect guy”. Perfect for me.
I refuse to be that young, crazy, Bridezilla trick. I won’t get married unless I’m 180% sure.
(And this is Maury trying to save marriages/relationships/baby mamas/baby daddies)
Doesn’t every girl want the perfect marriage? Well, I am not settling my friend.
OK, I know what you’re thinking? I just turned 21. I know. I’m not saying I have to get married next week or next year or hell even 5 years. When do guys biological clocks start ticking? Hmm..? Well it just really made me think.. Maybe if people experienced divorce they wouldn’t be so quick to get married. I know I won’t and I know my sister won’t.
Lord help her. AND God bless the poor soul that marries her. I’m kidding, love you.
And Franco, DON’T get any ideas.
“I don’t want a perfect person I just want someone to act silly with, someone who treats me well and loves being with me more than anything.”