Lately I have been seeing people who I don’t really care for. Whether it’s been at Bourbon Street (the highschool reunion) or school or just out; I have seen more people these past two weeks than since I’ve graduated.
Anyhow, I saw a couple of people out and they always say, “Long time, no see.” Hmmm did you ever think that there was a reason behind me not seeing your face since high school? YES. Ok I sound like a bitch don’t I? Well that’s probably because I am. But I’m truthful damn it.
I’m not going to be fake like other people. If I don’t enjoy looking at your face, I won’t talk to you. If I don’t enjoy being in your presence, I’ll move. Plain and simple. If I don’t jump up for joy and go and say hi to you, its SAFE to say that I probably don’t what you to come and say hi to me.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not that evil of a person, I do enjoy most people I went to highschool with. There are just a few people, well one person, that I would
beat to a bloody pulp if I saw her RATHER not see. (All of my best friends know exactly what I’m talking about) I have this one rule. This one girl. They all have been forewarned on several occasions how I feel and what I will do if I see this creature. Ok, I’m done ranting…Luckily for her I haven’t seen her since we’ve graduated.
So is there that one girl who YOU hate after highschool, hoping that you don’t run into her? Do you work with or see people from highschool that you can’t stand? And maybe it’s not even necessarily from highschool…just people from your past even. Ex boyfriends, ex girlfriends, ex fwb, etc, etc.
Or that awkward moment when someone knows who you are and you have no idea who they were. Vice versa, you recognize that douche bag that got kicked out of highschool, but he has NO clue who you are. Or those people you pass in the hall and are like…hmm I know them but should I say hi? Do they remember me? We had like every single class together…hmm oh well.
What about exs? I see mine on occasion. Well thankfully we are still friends. Kind of? I’m not really sure. He might disagree. It’s complicated. We have our ups and downs, just like our relationship. But anyhow we hang out sometimes and it really only gets awkward when we bring up the past. We have been broken up for about 9 months so it really shouldn’t be weird…but it is. So I don’t really hate it when I see him. I think of him as a really great friend. We dated for long enough, we might as well have a friendship out of it. I’m sure I wouldn’t have said this the first couple months after we broke up. We avoided each other and never spoke at all. Other people I dated..I might not say the same thing. It depends on who it is to be honest. Some I’d like to see, others I haven’t seen in years, thankfully.
So what do you do when you see your ex? Depending on who they are..you might run or avoid them or you might really enjoy catching up with them. It really depends on who it is and how it ended. Right?