Not your phone number.
How many people you’ve slept with..
I actually watched that movie today called “What’s your number?” The cute romantic comedy about the girl who has slept with 20 guys and she doesn’t want to go over 20 so she has a guy friend help her stalk down her exes. Turns out the hot musician neighbor who is helping her, falls in love with her. How typical? And a cliche adorable ending where she runs and finds him. Now to be quite honest with you’ve I’ve been asked this before on a couple different occasions. Why do guys think that it’s OK to ask us that so nonchalantly? Apparently it makes a big deal as to whether or not you would like to sleep with me or not. So if I told you 54 would you be excited cause I’d have experience or think that I have herpes, syphilis, trafectiod or whatever the latest STD is (I made that last one up). And if I said 1 would you think I’m a prude bitch who has had one so called “lover” her whole life? So what is the perfect number? I’d like to know.
The other thing is…How do you know I’m telling the truth? Last time I checked I didn’t have a stamp next to my vagina letting you know how many people got into my Garden of Eden. Obviously if I’m in a relationship with someone I would tell the truth. And if I cared enough and thought maybe you deserved to know, maybe I’d let you know. MAYBE. I just don’t understand why it’s used to lightly with guys. Well maybe I do, because with guys the higher the number the cooler you are. But with girls, if your number is high, your a skank. My advice would be to keep things left unsaid, this could cause some fights as well. I know some people that when they first started dating it was just a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’. But if you think you could actually invest some time and feelings into this person then maybe you should. My ex boyfriend and I got into a couple fights about each others number. He pretty much forgot to mention someone. It can also be a tricky subject if it’s a mutual friend or someone you know. Like I could never look at this girl the same. I sure as hell wasn’t going to ask her if she wanted to split a bagel with me at Panera anytime soon. But it’s something I shouldn’t have been worried about. It wasn’t about the number. It was that he forgot? Sorry I mentioned you btw, you know that I’m going to have to talk about you at some point. 4 years is just too long to not have ANY stories 🙂
Marie Claire surveyed 19,638 women, and the majority has there number lying in the 4-10 department, with 1-3 being a close tie.